You can tone it up or down depending on the body language signals she gives you. If you see her smiling, you're on the right track. But if she starts giving you the 'wrinkly nose' signal, you're probably going too far. Pull back a bit. 

Take the time to scan through your memories and bring out some of those stories. Polish them up and get some vivid imagery into them.

And here's a great tip. Go to a book store and browse through the women's erotica section - you may even buy a book or two. Get to know their language. You want to choose your words to arouse the women, so you might as well learn from them.

Remember. A female's MIND is her most potent sex organ. So learn the words that get her sizzling. When you light the fuse with language, that's when you get to experience her exploding with passion.

When someone discovers someone they would like to date, often that person is too shy to just outwardly ask the other person onto a dating adventure. Many people believe in the "friends into lovers" theme that has been passed down to us since the 1970's. Even to those who achieve the friends with benefits compatibility with someone, it is not the same passion as what they can achieve with "lovers into friends" relationship. And passion is where all the thrills are found.

So, it is best to seek out those with whom you have a sexual attraction to directly, as a lovers relationship. You may be friendly, but you must approach this relationship as a primary sexual one. But how do you "implant" sexual ideas in a potential lovers heart to assure you the greatest chance of success.